Friday, July 18, 2008

7 manners overcomes to feel small

ones with diffidence instinctively keep cognizance if their self is passed from another person. diffidence usually make somebody loses time, less get delight and kucil from social connection.

diffidence can bring many loss. but for you that has this character, unnecessary berkecil heart, because basically there many manners to chase away far character that harm this. actually, formula from feel small to consist of 'too berpusat in self self' mixed with nervous taste. and there blend more not menyang, saatrasa shy that influence physical you with cara'membajak reasonable placidity.

feel small a combination from social nervousness and pengkondisian social. to overcome to feel small this you require learn to posed to relax in social association. wanted effort to aim your self far from too berpusat in ownself, with give your self is space to memprakte converse ability. in the much case, emotion that culminate in bersosialisasi make person receives various insident with have cold feet. to begin to decrease to feel small, for you timid, there are some matter under this may be can you prakte.

1. think about your manner felts and act around people who you have known, where can you felt pleasant and posed spontaneous. transfer feeling that moment you meet new acquaitance with in situation that makes your self confidence taste paleds.

2. koid too pay attention your self self. of course, you may a little think about how will you let perbicangan with public, but if entire your focus is effusive in your words is self and feeling you, furthermore you will begin to felt nervous self. keep in mind what worn by another person and make note aloof, listen to what they talk, conceive where they live, make a outline or keep in mind their name. this matter is bot merely gives you are discussion ingredient, but also liquefy strains in bersosialisasi and make feeling you calmer.

3. make open question at all of person. many people glader speak about their selfs self, and find a topic that make another person interested, what will make them interested will make perbicangan will walk fun for all person. always raise question that make possible answer more than yes/not.

4. stop to trust in your imagination. may be you ever make description about a fun holiday and in kenyataa far differ from you conceive' that demo beatapa not can mempercayanya ourselves shadow. stop to think what thought another person, the paragraph, are you another person idea exercise about you, not yet sure same exactly shadowy you.

5. stop to think 'everything or small things. ' thinking 'certain like this/certain so' decanted moment you experience emotion. people who depression, angry and restless see fact from this matters with difference ektrim. for one who in a rage 'you and 'they, ' one who angry will see self will 'fail', other 'success. ' so to stop to think if you may be say wrong matter, or another person will hate you. moment you will felt to relax in your social association will get a little warning from your self self, because in a state of nervous, usually you will begin to think of everything or small things.

6. enjoy your time. unnecessary say matters without a thought first of all. raise question and if question is submitted you can considering answer beforehand as your conception. don't origin answers without a thought. answer that launched slowly be manner relaxes to posed.

7. final, use hypnotic practice. hypnotic be quickest manner to changes your instinct/emotion conception in every situation. only think that idea and your body is in a state of relax sewaktu meets newcomer. equalize this conditon sewaktu you come in contact with new ones. actually, sewaktu you will felt to relax oftentimes you will find moment correct to will apply hypnotic agarmerasa self confidence will deal new ones, and of course in this points will feel alone by itself.

for you that has problem ashamedly moment come in contact with new acquaitance, can you try seven tips we submit above. and good afterwards you more self confidence moment will meet new ones in social association.

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